Women
I don't understand them. [All my ex-girlfriends reel back from shock].
But then again who warned us against taking apart the ones we love to
see what makes them tick?
I think that women will continue to benefit from casting off social
programming. Far too many women have been programmed to be docile,
submissive and faux-stupid waiting for a White Knight husband.
Equality in a relationship is unlikely if one party is taught to be
submissive.
We need to teach our daughters that it is ok to:
- be happy in their bodies.
Women are
seriously beautiful and don't need to starve or carve
themselves to be ok. Vanity surgery is an abomination
against the body-temple.
- have their own opinions, and be challenged by
those who disagree.
Boys do so make
passes at girls who wear glasses.
- acknowledge and act on their human/sexual needs
.
As long as we brainwash our daughters that
good girls don't have sex (and even if they do, they sure
aren't allowed to enjoy it) we will have the predator/prey
game. And many times the prey will
get seriously injured. The answer: make sure that no
really means no in every circumstance, and then teach our
sons that same truth.
- they have worth as people, quite independent of
their looks, bra size, weight, marital/maternal status.